So I have been away for a few days, but that's because I have been busy....which is a very good thing!
But now I am back with another product....
Today's Product is: Ampro Pro Styl(Protein Styling Gel)
I know that some naturals do not not like gel and some of them will only use Eco Styler. I am personally not a fan of Eco Styler but I do like gel for some natural hair styles. Before my hair was loc'ed...I really liked using gel for my twist because of the kinkiness of my hair.
The ingredients are not natural but it does claim to Alcohol free. I think that the "alcohol free" is something that all gels are claiming right now because of the natural hair community and people becoming more conscience about what they are putting in and on their bodies. But for the most part the all gels have to have some kind alcohol to add hold to your hair when applied. So none of them are really truly alcohol free.
For the most part I think this a good product if used properly. If you use Ampro Gel on dry hair more then likely you will not like the results, because this gel is thicker it has the tendency to flake and cause build-up. Most gels including this one should be used on wet natural hair.
Gel can be used for slicking back edges, smoothing twist, holding coils, and retwisting locs....
I personally like the dark gels unless the hair is blonde or gray because brown gel discolors and can sometimes stains these hair colors.
Overall I think it is a good product...the price is reasonable ranging from $0.89-$5.99.....
Saturday, November 5, 2011
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Day 9--Product Review
I found a really good product with this one and it was relatively cheap....actually t is really cheap. The name might throw some people off because it is not normally something that I think black people are used to using on their hair...
So today's product is: Suave Professionals Almond+Shea Butter Moisturizing Shampoo
The label is a little tricky....it says NEW 100% NATURAL but the small print says almond and shea butter...so actually the only thing natural in the product are those 2 ingredients. But it is a moisturizing shampoo which is a plus. It is advertised to be good for dry and damaged hair. It claims to work as well as Aveda Dry Remedy Shampoo. The second ingredient is sulfate but not all hair (natural or relaxed) reacts to sulfates the same way, so it is worth a try. I have not tried this particular shampoo on freeform natural hair but it is good for locs. It is thick enough to lather but not so thick that it doesnt wash out of the locs.
It is also a very good buy @ $3.00 for 32fl.oz I think that anybody should give it a try. It doesn't leave a residue or a build-up. It also has the best almond smell that really lingers in ur hair. It adds shine to ur hair and it also adds significant moisture to the scalp and hair. This is a good everyday shampoo or just a good go to when u have run out of ur regular shampoo. I haven't seen it at any store other then Wal-Mart but Im sure it can be found in Target, Walgreens, CVS, or Meijer....
So today's product is: Suave Professionals Almond+Shea Butter Moisturizing Shampoo
The label is a little tricky....it says NEW 100% NATURAL but the small print says almond and shea butter...so actually the only thing natural in the product are those 2 ingredients. But it is a moisturizing shampoo which is a plus. It is advertised to be good for dry and damaged hair. It claims to work as well as Aveda Dry Remedy Shampoo. The second ingredient is sulfate but not all hair (natural or relaxed) reacts to sulfates the same way, so it is worth a try. I have not tried this particular shampoo on freeform natural hair but it is good for locs. It is thick enough to lather but not so thick that it doesnt wash out of the locs.
It is also a very good buy @ $3.00 for 32fl.oz I think that anybody should give it a try. It doesn't leave a residue or a build-up. It also has the best almond smell that really lingers in ur hair. It adds shine to ur hair and it also adds significant moisture to the scalp and hair. This is a good everyday shampoo or just a good go to when u have run out of ur regular shampoo. I haven't seen it at any store other then Wal-Mart but Im sure it can be found in Target, Walgreens, CVS, or Meijer....
Day 8---Product Review
Today I want to review another product for children...
I have used almost all of the products in the African Pride Kids line because I think that they work well for the most part. Even without them having plat based or 100% natural ingredients they still work well for my daughters.
So today's product is:African Pride (Dream Kids) Anti-Breakage Detangling Oil Moisturizer...
This is another non-natural product that works really well. I have used this for both of my daughters. It is good for detangling after a wash. It is thick but if u work it into wet hair it drys clear. U can also use it on dry hair but just a smaller amount. I have used it to slick up a ponytail but because it is not as thick s a pomade it does not hold. When u use it on wet hair it does give a shininess to twist and braids.
It claim to work because it is enriched with Olive Oil but it also has 10 other oils in it so I don't think that the Olive Oil is very prevalent. It has a very nice strawberry-ish smell. The one thing that I don't like is that it can be a little greasy on my hands. It can also be a little sticky which can cause any sheaded hairs to stick to ur fingers.
I paid $4.99 for a 8 fl.oz. bottle and it has lasted for going on 2 months....so I consider that to be a pretty good deal. I wouldn't say this is a "must have" but it is good for very tender headed children. I purchased mine from the beauty supply but it can also be found at Wal-Mart.
I have used almost all of the products in the African Pride Kids line because I think that they work well for the most part. Even without them having plat based or 100% natural ingredients they still work well for my daughters.
So today's product is:African Pride (Dream Kids) Anti-Breakage Detangling Oil Moisturizer...
This is another non-natural product that works really well. I have used this for both of my daughters. It is good for detangling after a wash. It is thick but if u work it into wet hair it drys clear. U can also use it on dry hair but just a smaller amount. I have used it to slick up a ponytail but because it is not as thick s a pomade it does not hold. When u use it on wet hair it does give a shininess to twist and braids.
It claim to work because it is enriched with Olive Oil but it also has 10 other oils in it so I don't think that the Olive Oil is very prevalent. It has a very nice strawberry-ish smell. The one thing that I don't like is that it can be a little greasy on my hands. It can also be a little sticky which can cause any sheaded hairs to stick to ur fingers.
I paid $4.99 for a 8 fl.oz. bottle and it has lasted for going on 2 months....so I consider that to be a pretty good deal. I wouldn't say this is a "must have" but it is good for very tender headed children. I purchased mine from the beauty supply but it can also be found at Wal-Mart.
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Day 7--Product Review
Ok...I didn't want to do any ultra cheap dollar store products but I decided, what the heck, why not...So here goes and this ones just for Signet Harding...
So today's product is: Tame Hydrating Shampoo...
Never heard of it? Well neither had I. So this is a product that can be purchased at any "Everything is a Dollar Store. It is not a natural or plant based product. Over 50% of the ingredients in this product cannot be pronounced. Although it does have water and Aloe Vera juice it also citric acid.
I don't like this product because it is thin and it doesn't lather. You cant wash ur hair with a shampoo that just sits on your scalp. I would not use nor recommend this product. It does not have a good smell...and most importantly it does not hydrate the hair. It does not have any ingredients that will hydrate or moisturize natural hair properly. All in all I will say that cheaper or the cheapest may not be best...
Sorry Signet, but I will have plenty of other product reviews that will be better choices...lol
So today's product is: Tame Hydrating Shampoo...
Never heard of it? Well neither had I. So this is a product that can be purchased at any "Everything is a Dollar Store. It is not a natural or plant based product. Over 50% of the ingredients in this product cannot be pronounced. Although it does have water and Aloe Vera juice it also citric acid.
I don't like this product because it is thin and it doesn't lather. You cant wash ur hair with a shampoo that just sits on your scalp. I would not use nor recommend this product. It does not have a good smell...and most importantly it does not hydrate the hair. It does not have any ingredients that will hydrate or moisturize natural hair properly. All in all I will say that cheaper or the cheapest may not be best...
Sorry Signet, but I will have plenty of other product reviews that will be better choices...lol
Tuesday, October 18, 2011
Day 6--Product Review
Hey...Everybody today I'm back with a product that I have been using forever. I love the whole product line.
Today's Product is Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioning Repair Cream...
This product definitely helps with curl definition. It adds shine, moisture, it reduces frizz, and helps hide split ends. Even though I am not a fan of overnight conditioning the label says that it can be used overnight with a shower cap to get maximum absorption. Because it adds tons of moisture it is good for daily use when u are doing wash-n-goes, twist outs, or braid outs. Because it controls frizz it is good for the hot and humid days.
The ingredients for this product are not 100% natural but it does have Shea Butter, Soybean Oil, and Glycerin. On the downside it does have some alcohol in it. Even with the alcohol I still stand behind this product because it does work so well.
I have used Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In for 2Strand Twist, Twist Outs, Flat Twist, Flat Twist Outs, and Wash -n-Goes. This was a staple for me before loc'ing. I would not use it on dry hair because of the thickness and if u have have used other products the build-up of those mixing with this will cause flaking. It is not a good choice for locs or puffs, although it white and dries clear it will make a puff limp if too much is used.
At $4.99-$5.99 for 16 fl. oz this a good buy. You can purchase it at Wal-Mart, Target, and the Beauty Supply. This is definitely a product where a little goes a long way...
Today's Product is Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioning Repair Cream...
This product definitely helps with curl definition. It adds shine, moisture, it reduces frizz, and helps hide split ends. Even though I am not a fan of overnight conditioning the label says that it can be used overnight with a shower cap to get maximum absorption. Because it adds tons of moisture it is good for daily use when u are doing wash-n-goes, twist outs, or braid outs. Because it controls frizz it is good for the hot and humid days.
The ingredients for this product are not 100% natural but it does have Shea Butter, Soybean Oil, and Glycerin. On the downside it does have some alcohol in it. Even with the alcohol I still stand behind this product because it does work so well.
I have used Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In for 2Strand Twist, Twist Outs, Flat Twist, Flat Twist Outs, and Wash -n-Goes. This was a staple for me before loc'ing. I would not use it on dry hair because of the thickness and if u have have used other products the build-up of those mixing with this will cause flaking. It is not a good choice for locs or puffs, although it white and dries clear it will make a puff limp if too much is used.
At $4.99-$5.99 for 16 fl. oz this a good buy. You can purchase it at Wal-Mart, Target, and the Beauty Supply. This is definitely a product where a little goes a long way...
Monday, October 17, 2011
Day 5---Product Review
Hey I'm back I guess I took a little break for the weekend but now it is back to business and i will start the week off with another product for the kiddies.
So today's products is: Kids Organic by African Best (Ultimate Moisture Shea Butter Conditioning Shampoo)
I used this product on both of my girls and it worked ok on my daughter with free form hair but not so good for my daughter that has starter locs. It is thick which is normal for shampoos that have the added conditioning element. I would still use a conditioner with this product if u have the time. One thing that I did not like about it is that took a little more then I wanted to use to get a good lather. The bottle is only 6 fl. oz. and that means that it will go very quickly, but it is only $1.99 so I guess that u could just buy more if u like it. The ingredients are not natural at all so if u want to stick to products that have all ingredients that u can pronounce then this will not be the product for u.
I like it for the most part, it is a good go to if u don't have anything else. Another downside is if u are trying to teach your daughter to accept her natural hair then u might not want to show her to see the bottle...the girls on the front have long straight curled hair.
So am I recommending this product? Yes I think it would be good for a good wash and for little girls that are transitioning.
So today's products is: Kids Organic by African Best (Ultimate Moisture Shea Butter Conditioning Shampoo)
I used this product on both of my girls and it worked ok on my daughter with free form hair but not so good for my daughter that has starter locs. It is thick which is normal for shampoos that have the added conditioning element. I would still use a conditioner with this product if u have the time. One thing that I did not like about it is that took a little more then I wanted to use to get a good lather. The bottle is only 6 fl. oz. and that means that it will go very quickly, but it is only $1.99 so I guess that u could just buy more if u like it. The ingredients are not natural at all so if u want to stick to products that have all ingredients that u can pronounce then this will not be the product for u.
I like it for the most part, it is a good go to if u don't have anything else. Another downside is if u are trying to teach your daughter to accept her natural hair then u might not want to show her to see the bottle...the girls on the front have long straight curled hair.
So am I recommending this product? Yes I think it would be good for a good wash and for little girls that are transitioning.
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Day 4--Product Review
I'm so excited to be doing these reviews...it is moving right along.
My next product is: Raw Shea Butter Oil
Now I first have to say that I Love, Love, Love Shea Butter! I like usually like my shea butter in the solid form because it seems to last longer. The oil is mixed with Canola Oil, Safflower Oil, Cotton Seed Oil, Wheat Germ Oil, and Macadamia Nut Oil. There are probably more of these oils then the actual shea butter even though it is listed first because it stays in the liquid form. I like the fact that this can be purchased in a tube that has a tip applicator. The tip makes it easier to get down on the actual scalp. If u have all ur hair up in a style or if u have a afro, or basically just about any style that might hinder ur ability to get oil directly down to ur scalp. The tube would be perfect it it could be refilled or reused, but I'm assuming that the cost(.99-1.00) makes it easy to just throw it away when it is empty and just buy another one. Each tube contains 1.5 fl. oz. so it may not last that long depending on how much u feel the need to use it. I would recommend it for someone that has tangley hair or someone that no longer uses a comb(if u get the tip applicator tube).
This oil is not heavy and it can be used on adults and children. I personally would prefer to buy the solid shea butter and melt down small amounts to oil my scalp.
I wouldn't say this is a must have but it is a good go to especially in a travel bag or overnight bag...its good for a quick fast fix when u have itchy scalp or are experiencing some dryness but don't have a big bottle or jar of moisturizer.
My next product is: Raw Shea Butter Oil
Now I first have to say that I Love, Love, Love Shea Butter! I like usually like my shea butter in the solid form because it seems to last longer. The oil is mixed with Canola Oil, Safflower Oil, Cotton Seed Oil, Wheat Germ Oil, and Macadamia Nut Oil. There are probably more of these oils then the actual shea butter even though it is listed first because it stays in the liquid form. I like the fact that this can be purchased in a tube that has a tip applicator. The tip makes it easier to get down on the actual scalp. If u have all ur hair up in a style or if u have a afro, or basically just about any style that might hinder ur ability to get oil directly down to ur scalp. The tube would be perfect it it could be refilled or reused, but I'm assuming that the cost(.99-1.00) makes it easy to just throw it away when it is empty and just buy another one. Each tube contains 1.5 fl. oz. so it may not last that long depending on how much u feel the need to use it. I would recommend it for someone that has tangley hair or someone that no longer uses a comb(if u get the tip applicator tube).
This oil is not heavy and it can be used on adults and children. I personally would prefer to buy the solid shea butter and melt down small amounts to oil my scalp.
I wouldn't say this is a must have but it is a good go to especially in a travel bag or overnight bag...its good for a quick fast fix when u have itchy scalp or are experiencing some dryness but don't have a big bottle or jar of moisturizer.
Day 3--Product Review
OK so today I have to talk about one of my new favorites. I had never used it before just because I thought that I liked another brand.
So today's product is: Aphogee Moisturizing Oil Sheen
I really like it because it is a little thicker then most oil sheens. It has been my experience that some oil sheens just get sucked up by natural hair and a few minutes later it is like you didn't put anything on it at all. As far as ingredients, of course it is not natural, but I must say I was a little thrown off when I read that one of the top ingredients is Propane. Its something how we never really read labels before going back to natural.
Even though it might not have the best ingredients I think that it works really well. I have sprayed it on my locs and on both of my daughters. I think that what makes it work buying is the integrity of the Aphogee line of products. This is not a product that I would use on transitioning hair or or weave because of the heaviness. I think it adds just enough shine to natural hair to make it look nice and not lack luster.
I do have one problem with it and it could be the product or just the can that I got, but it seems to be jammed. Meaning the can is half full and at this point instead of spraying out it just kind of sputters out. That makes it a little frustrating because it is time consuming. Also it just has a "ok" smell.
Over all I would say that it might be good to try it...not a necessity. It is inexpensive ($4.99) and can be found in the beauty supply.
So today's product is: Aphogee Moisturizing Oil Sheen
I really like it because it is a little thicker then most oil sheens. It has been my experience that some oil sheens just get sucked up by natural hair and a few minutes later it is like you didn't put anything on it at all. As far as ingredients, of course it is not natural, but I must say I was a little thrown off when I read that one of the top ingredients is Propane. Its something how we never really read labels before going back to natural.
Even though it might not have the best ingredients I think that it works really well. I have sprayed it on my locs and on both of my daughters. I think that what makes it work buying is the integrity of the Aphogee line of products. This is not a product that I would use on transitioning hair or or weave because of the heaviness. I think it adds just enough shine to natural hair to make it look nice and not lack luster.
I do have one problem with it and it could be the product or just the can that I got, but it seems to be jammed. Meaning the can is half full and at this point instead of spraying out it just kind of sputters out. That makes it a little frustrating because it is time consuming. Also it just has a "ok" smell.
Over all I would say that it might be good to try it...not a necessity. It is inexpensive ($4.99) and can be found in the beauty supply.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
Day 2--Product Review
Hey I'm back for Day 2...didn't know if I was going to make it...so many products to choose from!
Ok so todays product is for the kiddos: African Pride "Dream Kids" Detangling Moisturizing Conditioner
So I have to say that I usually buy products or my children if they have detangling or moisturizing on the label.
This conditioner, according to the label, can be used as a leave-in or a rinse out.
While reading the ingredients I see it has shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, soybean oil, jojoba oil, grape seed oil, avocado oil, linseed oil, wheat germ oil....that's seems like over kill to me, that is just my opinion. How many oils do u really need? Anyway, lets talk about the performance of the product.
So recently I tried co-washing for my youngest daughter's freeform natural hair. I do this once a month, mainly because I do not use a lot of products in her hair so her scalp build-up is really low.
Overall I think this is a good co-wash product for a child's hair...most times I buy different products for my children then what I use. I think that some products are designed for children for a reason, therefore I don't use them. So I have used the whole bottle and it took me a while to use it and I would use it again. The thing i liked the most was that it was a good detangler. My daughter has extremely coily hair and detangling is a nightmare but what I noticed was that once I worked it through the hair I could then detangle with my fingers. It did add shine to her hair and it wasn't very drying.
I also used it as a regular condish after a shampoo...it also worked well in this instance because of the moisture element. That is the key to most good conditioners. I would not and have not used it as a leave-in, not because it wouldn't work, but because I am personally not a fan of leave-ins in my daughter's hair.
So I would recommend this product for anyone who has a daughter with tangley, dry, freeform natural hair...use for a good deep condish or co-wash...either way you will be happy with the results.
The cost is good too...only $3.99 at the beauty supply....
Ok so todays product is for the kiddos: African Pride "Dream Kids" Detangling Moisturizing Conditioner
So I have to say that I usually buy products or my children if they have detangling or moisturizing on the label.
This conditioner, according to the label, can be used as a leave-in or a rinse out.
While reading the ingredients I see it has shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, soybean oil, jojoba oil, grape seed oil, avocado oil, linseed oil, wheat germ oil....that's seems like over kill to me, that is just my opinion. How many oils do u really need? Anyway, lets talk about the performance of the product.
So recently I tried co-washing for my youngest daughter's freeform natural hair. I do this once a month, mainly because I do not use a lot of products in her hair so her scalp build-up is really low.
Overall I think this is a good co-wash product for a child's hair...most times I buy different products for my children then what I use. I think that some products are designed for children for a reason, therefore I don't use them. So I have used the whole bottle and it took me a while to use it and I would use it again. The thing i liked the most was that it was a good detangler. My daughter has extremely coily hair and detangling is a nightmare but what I noticed was that once I worked it through the hair I could then detangle with my fingers. It did add shine to her hair and it wasn't very drying.
I also used it as a regular condish after a shampoo...it also worked well in this instance because of the moisture element. That is the key to most good conditioners. I would not and have not used it as a leave-in, not because it wouldn't work, but because I am personally not a fan of leave-ins in my daughter's hair.
So I would recommend this product for anyone who has a daughter with tangley, dry, freeform natural hair...use for a good deep condish or co-wash...either way you will be happy with the results.
The cost is good too...only $3.99 at the beauty supply....
Monday, October 10, 2011
Day 1--Product Review
I will start with a disclaimer...this is my opinion on these products. Not all of these products will work on all natural hair. Not all of these products will be natural or plant based.
My first product is....Jam!
I know that some naturals are not into gels, but this is a really good product. It is labeled as a shining and conditioning gel. The label also states that it has no wax, no flaking, and no drying alcohol. It does contain alcohol but it does not dry like normal gel and it does not make the hair "crunchy". This product can be used on wet or dry hair. I have been using the Extra Hold because I like the thickness. The consistency is very thick...a lot more dense than Eco Styler Gel and Impro Gel, but not as thick as Shea Butter. It reminds me of Jello...lol.
I have been using Jam! for about 2 weeks now and I tried it on multiple styles just to see what it would do. It works wonders for a ponytail...it slicks and smoothes edges really well. I didn't think that it worked better then gel for loc retwist but it did give the locks a shiny, smooth, slick look in the front; which I did like. I like it at the base of 2Strand twist and flat twist. It gives a better grip for the twist if the hair is wet and if the hair is dry it adds some moisture and shine. It also is good for taming frizzies. You can put a little on your fingers when untwisting for a twist out. I would not recommend this product for comb coils because it is heavy. I think it is better for thicker more kinky hair because of the heaviness of the product.
All in all I think that it is a good product for any natural hair wearer to have on hand. I got mine from Wal-Mart on sale, the price ranges from $2-$3 per jar and each jar should last about 1 month.
My first product is....Jam!
I know that some naturals are not into gels, but this is a really good product. It is labeled as a shining and conditioning gel. The label also states that it has no wax, no flaking, and no drying alcohol. It does contain alcohol but it does not dry like normal gel and it does not make the hair "crunchy". This product can be used on wet or dry hair. I have been using the Extra Hold because I like the thickness. The consistency is very thick...a lot more dense than Eco Styler Gel and Impro Gel, but not as thick as Shea Butter. It reminds me of Jello...lol.
I have been using Jam! for about 2 weeks now and I tried it on multiple styles just to see what it would do. It works wonders for a ponytail...it slicks and smoothes edges really well. I didn't think that it worked better then gel for loc retwist but it did give the locks a shiny, smooth, slick look in the front; which I did like. I like it at the base of 2Strand twist and flat twist. It gives a better grip for the twist if the hair is wet and if the hair is dry it adds some moisture and shine. It also is good for taming frizzies. You can put a little on your fingers when untwisting for a twist out. I would not recommend this product for comb coils because it is heavy. I think it is better for thicker more kinky hair because of the heaviness of the product.
All in all I think that it is a good product for any natural hair wearer to have on hand. I got mine from Wal-Mart on sale, the price ranges from $2-$3 per jar and each jar should last about 1 month.
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Kids Styles Continued.....
Two days ago I did a post on quick and easy styles for kids. I stared with the boys so now I will move on to the girls.
Styling girls hair can be much more creative then boys hair. You have many more options and if done properly you will be very pleased with the results. The first step is to decide if you want to start with a ponytail style or a flowing style. I would recommend a flowing style first only because of the wrinkles that can be caused by ponytail holders. The plus in this is that you can do a three week ponytail style or a three week flowing style.
After you have decided on the style you will want to make sure that the hair is washed, detangled, and moisturized. I will begin with the three week ponytail style(it is easier to start off with one ponytail). After greasing the scalp you will need to part the hair down the middle(this will help in week 2 when you switch the style)...now from here you can either flat twist or french braid(following through to the ends of the hair). It is easier to do one side at a time...so you will want to move from the left in to the middle part and the from the right in to the middle part. Once both sides are done you ca secure with the holder of your choice. Each night you will want to make sure that you loosen the holder to prevent tension on the sides.
Now moving on to week number 2...you can do one of two things...you can add barrettes or shells to the ponytail. If you did 2Strand twist instead of braids then you can make the twist in the ponytail bigger or smaller. This week you could also move the ponytail from the middle and move it closer to the right or the left or you could make the one ponytail into 2....if you choose to make the one ponytail into 2 then I would recommend that you also make the ponytails into afro puffs.
Now moving on to the quickest of all...the flowing(down) style. Once again you detangle and moisturize. First you will decide if you want to start with big or small 2Strand twist...if this style is done with braids it would be best to do small box braids that can e worn in many different styles that can be changed daily. Now if you choose to start with big twist for the first week then in week 2 you will just make each one into 2....it would be the opposite if you start small in week 1. When transitioning from week one to week 2 you do not have to do every twist so be careful with partings and making sure that the twist are all the same size. Now moving into the 3rd week you will have a simple twist out. Although twistouts are sometimes hard to maintain for a week it is easier with children because you can chunky twist the hair at night and if that doesn't work you can put the twistout hair into a ponytail or a headband can be used. Another 3rd week idea is to put the twist into one or multiply ponytails....
Hopefully this will help with your childs natural hair journey!
Styling girls hair can be much more creative then boys hair. You have many more options and if done properly you will be very pleased with the results. The first step is to decide if you want to start with a ponytail style or a flowing style. I would recommend a flowing style first only because of the wrinkles that can be caused by ponytail holders. The plus in this is that you can do a three week ponytail style or a three week flowing style.
After you have decided on the style you will want to make sure that the hair is washed, detangled, and moisturized. I will begin with the three week ponytail style(it is easier to start off with one ponytail). After greasing the scalp you will need to part the hair down the middle(this will help in week 2 when you switch the style)...now from here you can either flat twist or french braid(following through to the ends of the hair). It is easier to do one side at a time...so you will want to move from the left in to the middle part and the from the right in to the middle part. Once both sides are done you ca secure with the holder of your choice. Each night you will want to make sure that you loosen the holder to prevent tension on the sides.
Now moving on to week number 2...you can do one of two things...you can add barrettes or shells to the ponytail. If you did 2Strand twist instead of braids then you can make the twist in the ponytail bigger or smaller. This week you could also move the ponytail from the middle and move it closer to the right or the left or you could make the one ponytail into 2....if you choose to make the one ponytail into 2 then I would recommend that you also make the ponytails into afro puffs.
Now moving on to the quickest of all...the flowing(down) style. Once again you detangle and moisturize. First you will decide if you want to start with big or small 2Strand twist...if this style is done with braids it would be best to do small box braids that can e worn in many different styles that can be changed daily. Now if you choose to start with big twist for the first week then in week 2 you will just make each one into 2....it would be the opposite if you start small in week 1. When transitioning from week one to week 2 you do not have to do every twist so be careful with partings and making sure that the twist are all the same size. Now moving into the 3rd week you will have a simple twist out. Although twistouts are sometimes hard to maintain for a week it is easier with children because you can chunky twist the hair at night and if that doesn't work you can put the twistout hair into a ponytail or a headband can be used. Another 3rd week idea is to put the twist into one or multiply ponytails....
Hopefully this will help with your childs natural hair journey!
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Quick Easy Kids Styles
Good Morning All....I know it has been awhile but I guess its good that I waited because I have alot to say now.
So today I want to talk about a very versatile style that I have used on my youngest daughter. The first step in making a style versatile is figuring out what kind of look u are going for. If this is a style that you want to last for 2-3 weeks (which is always good for little girls)...make sure that the hair is as clean as u can get it and tangle free, make sure that the scalp is greased well and that the hair is well moisturized. You have to make you do this because it might be 3 weeks before you wash it again.
So now that the hair is clean and detangled you have to decide next if you want to start with the hair in a ponytail or down(for girls) and small or big twist/braids (for boys).
I will start with boys...once you have made your decision you will then want to make sure that your parts are straight and that each twist/braid is the same size. I would recommend that you use 2Strand Twist or Plaits...these are easy to manipulate. Now depending on the length and thickness of the hair you might want to start with smaller sizes first for boys. If you break it down into weeks you would start week one with the small twist/braids that will hang down maybe with a part in the middle. If you have a favorite Oil Sheen it would be good to use that once every 2 or 3 days just to put a little shine on the hair. When you get to the second week you will want to go through the scalp and look for any dry areas, if you see any then take the grease that you used earlier and moisturize those areas. Now you are ready for the next style...if you decided to go with twist take 2 twist and make them 1...this will give you a bigger twist. There is no reason to take down the twist before joining them. If you went with the braids you can section the hair half or into 4's(this is where the perfect parting comes in) and then braid them together...u can make cornrows or french braids. This could last longer then a week on adults but with children you don't want too many frizzies. Now moving into the 3rd and final week this is the take down week. You have two options for this week...you can take it down all at once or take it down in sections. After the take down you can either do a ponytail or a afro. If the boy has short hair(above the ear) you can modify by doing twist that are bigger to begin and then take those apart in the second week...take each twist and make it into 2....
So today I want to talk about a very versatile style that I have used on my youngest daughter. The first step in making a style versatile is figuring out what kind of look u are going for. If this is a style that you want to last for 2-3 weeks (which is always good for little girls)...make sure that the hair is as clean as u can get it and tangle free, make sure that the scalp is greased well and that the hair is well moisturized. You have to make you do this because it might be 3 weeks before you wash it again.
So now that the hair is clean and detangled you have to decide next if you want to start with the hair in a ponytail or down(for girls) and small or big twist/braids (for boys).
I will start with boys...once you have made your decision you will then want to make sure that your parts are straight and that each twist/braid is the same size. I would recommend that you use 2Strand Twist or Plaits...these are easy to manipulate. Now depending on the length and thickness of the hair you might want to start with smaller sizes first for boys. If you break it down into weeks you would start week one with the small twist/braids that will hang down maybe with a part in the middle. If you have a favorite Oil Sheen it would be good to use that once every 2 or 3 days just to put a little shine on the hair. When you get to the second week you will want to go through the scalp and look for any dry areas, if you see any then take the grease that you used earlier and moisturize those areas. Now you are ready for the next style...if you decided to go with twist take 2 twist and make them 1...this will give you a bigger twist. There is no reason to take down the twist before joining them. If you went with the braids you can section the hair half or into 4's(this is where the perfect parting comes in) and then braid them together...u can make cornrows or french braids. This could last longer then a week on adults but with children you don't want too many frizzies. Now moving into the 3rd and final week this is the take down week. You have two options for this week...you can take it down all at once or take it down in sections. After the take down you can either do a ponytail or a afro. If the boy has short hair(above the ear) you can modify by doing twist that are bigger to begin and then take those apart in the second week...take each twist and make it into 2....
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Feeling Comfortable in ur Hair...
Recently I have heard a lot of natural hair wearers saying that they want their hair to look like "this" or like "that" and I always wonder what make them think that they can achieve that particular style. Most relaxed hair, unless u have practically no hair, can all go easily into the same styles. For example if I was to relax my hair then I could get a iron out whether my hair is short or long, weave could be added for the length and/or thickness, and so could u and we could have virtually the same hair style. Now lets use the same example for natural hair, I could wear my natural hair in a blown out Afro and get the "Foxy Brown" look, but you could blowout your hair and it could go almost completely straight. So that means that you have to know your hair. You cannot style your hair based on what my hair or the next persons hair texture is. People go from relaxed to natural for many different reasons, but one of the reasons should be individuality. You have to be comfortable and confident with yourself. Choose style that enhance your natural beauty.....
Sunday, June 19, 2011
Product review
Ok so I know that I have slacked off a little on the whole blog thing but i think it is better to do this when i actually have something to say instead of forcing it...I want people to read and comment so I want it to be interesting...
Now on to today's topic...product review! A few weeks ago I was asked to try out a new line of products called Ur Pure Beauty. I received a lock and twist butter, keratin protein treatment, moisturizing styling cream, a clarifying shampoo, a cleansing conditioner, a styling cream, and a hydrating leave-in conditioner spray. I will give a little info about each product and tell briefly why I did or did not like it.
The first thing that I used was the shampoo...it was actually really good. It had a pepperminty, tea treey smell to it and the clients said that it had somewhat of a tingly feeling on the scalp. It also had the best lather...a little really did go a long way. I would definitely recommend this shampoo but if u don't shampoo a lot I would say u might not want to buy it because it has a 30 day shelf life. Also u might want to follow up with a good moisturizing conditioner.
I used the conditioner but I did not think that it was a good follow up to the clarifying shampoo. I did however use it on a client that only co washes and it was great. After using it I was actually thought about recommending it to some other clients instead of shampoo. It really did cleanse the hair and the scalp and there was no lather. There was no build up and it did not stick in the hair. I followed it up with the keratin protein conditioner. So if u are a co-washer and u really need a good cleaning conditioner I think this is a good one.
I did not like the loc and twist butter for locs. i think it would work good for other styles but for locs it was a little to thick for what I like. The base for it is Shea Butter so I am sure if melted to would be good for people who do loc retwist with oil only. I like to use gel for the most part when doing retwist, but I did try it on a twist set and to smooth some edges and it worked fine. I love, love, love Shea butter and use it for just about anything so I think that anything with Shea butter in it has to be a little good. I did like the fact that the container was big and since a little shea butter goes a long way it is something that i would recommend.
There were two different styling creams and both were whips that smelled lovely. I did think they were a little thick but if used in moderation they could be good. I did like the Mega Moisture Styling Butter it was great for twist on multiple textures. The Mega Moisture did melt away in the hair and that was a plus. I would have like for it to have been in a bigger jar, but for individual use it would be good. I did not like the Rehydrating Styling Creme...it was just to think. It was not the worse but it did just sit in the hair. It didn't melt quickly like the Mega Moisture.
I did use the Keratin and Silk Reconstructor in conjunction with the cleansing conditioner and I was happy with the results. It mad the hair softer and more manageable. I did like the fact that it worked without having to heat it with the dryer. Sometimes people don't have time for the dryer or just don't like sitting under a dryer. I just massaged into the scalp and hair for about 3 minutes and rinsed and I thought that it worked well this way. I would recommend this if u need deep conditioning or have damaged hair.
There was one product that I like the most....no I have to say I loved it and that was the leave-in conditioner spray. It was easy to use because it was in a spray. It smelled good and it was better then spraying with water. It has oil in it and that made it give a little shine and it worked good for locs and free form hair. I sprayed in my hair every day that I had it. And it worked on all textures.
All in all I think Ur Pure Beauty products are worth trying. They are all natural products for all of u that want natural or organic products. And the prices aren't too bad either......
www.urpurebeauty.vpweb.com
Now on to today's topic...product review! A few weeks ago I was asked to try out a new line of products called Ur Pure Beauty. I received a lock and twist butter, keratin protein treatment, moisturizing styling cream, a clarifying shampoo, a cleansing conditioner, a styling cream, and a hydrating leave-in conditioner spray. I will give a little info about each product and tell briefly why I did or did not like it.
The first thing that I used was the shampoo...it was actually really good. It had a pepperminty, tea treey smell to it and the clients said that it had somewhat of a tingly feeling on the scalp. It also had the best lather...a little really did go a long way. I would definitely recommend this shampoo but if u don't shampoo a lot I would say u might not want to buy it because it has a 30 day shelf life. Also u might want to follow up with a good moisturizing conditioner.
I used the conditioner but I did not think that it was a good follow up to the clarifying shampoo. I did however use it on a client that only co washes and it was great. After using it I was actually thought about recommending it to some other clients instead of shampoo. It really did cleanse the hair and the scalp and there was no lather. There was no build up and it did not stick in the hair. I followed it up with the keratin protein conditioner. So if u are a co-washer and u really need a good cleaning conditioner I think this is a good one.
I did not like the loc and twist butter for locs. i think it would work good for other styles but for locs it was a little to thick for what I like. The base for it is Shea Butter so I am sure if melted to would be good for people who do loc retwist with oil only. I like to use gel for the most part when doing retwist, but I did try it on a twist set and to smooth some edges and it worked fine. I love, love, love Shea butter and use it for just about anything so I think that anything with Shea butter in it has to be a little good. I did like the fact that the container was big and since a little shea butter goes a long way it is something that i would recommend.
There were two different styling creams and both were whips that smelled lovely. I did think they were a little thick but if used in moderation they could be good. I did like the Mega Moisture Styling Butter it was great for twist on multiple textures. The Mega Moisture did melt away in the hair and that was a plus. I would have like for it to have been in a bigger jar, but for individual use it would be good. I did not like the Rehydrating Styling Creme...it was just to think. It was not the worse but it did just sit in the hair. It didn't melt quickly like the Mega Moisture.
I did use the Keratin and Silk Reconstructor in conjunction with the cleansing conditioner and I was happy with the results. It mad the hair softer and more manageable. I did like the fact that it worked without having to heat it with the dryer. Sometimes people don't have time for the dryer or just don't like sitting under a dryer. I just massaged into the scalp and hair for about 3 minutes and rinsed and I thought that it worked well this way. I would recommend this if u need deep conditioning or have damaged hair.
There was one product that I like the most....no I have to say I loved it and that was the leave-in conditioner spray. It was easy to use because it was in a spray. It smelled good and it was better then spraying with water. It has oil in it and that made it give a little shine and it worked good for locs and free form hair. I sprayed in my hair every day that I had it. And it worked on all textures.
All in all I think Ur Pure Beauty products are worth trying. They are all natural products for all of u that want natural or organic products. And the prices aren't too bad either......
www.urpurebeauty.vpweb.com
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Choosing Color....
So....today I wanted to touch on hair color. Natural hair takes and handles color better then relaxed her...that doesn't necessarily mean that natural hair is stronger then relaxed hair. I have heard people say that if u color ur natural hair then it is no longer natural...well I don't really agree with that because natural refers to the texture. My natural hair is brown but if I dye it red that will not change the fact that I have locs.
Now if u want to color your natural hair u must first decide what color u want. Sometimes this can be difficult especially if ur hair is dark and u want a drastic change. There are those that will bleach their hair in order to bring it up to the color they want immediately. I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as u know what u are doing. Bleach is very harsh on the hair whether natural or relaxed. Bleach will break ur hair off and/or burn ur scalp.
After u have figured out the color that u want u have to make sure that u know how to apply it. I don't think there is anything wrong with box color as long as u know how to apply it. The boxes normally have directions that are easy to follow and it is important that u follow them to a "t". You also want to make sure u have enough. Sometimes when u have natural it tends to be thicker then what ur relaxed hair would have been which means that u would want to purchase at least 2 boxes. Also make sure that if u have gray hair that the color covers gray. If the color that u purchase does not have gray coverage then u run the risk of having the gray hair to have a different color then the rest of ur hair.
Now if u feel that u want blonde hair, you do not have to bleach it...u can buy a blonde color which will lift ur hair to blonde without as much damage as bleach. If u want a very bright color(like red) then u may have to take the color up to blonde first and then cover with a rinse. A rinse does not damage the hair because it only stains the hair. A rinse will not have the same effect as permanent color.
If u are not sure how to color ur own hair and u choose to have the color done by a stylist...make sure that u disclose to the stylist what color u are trying to achieve and let him/her know if u have ever had problems with color before.
The most important thing to remember is that color can enhance ur appearance when done correctly.
Now if u want to color your natural hair u must first decide what color u want. Sometimes this can be difficult especially if ur hair is dark and u want a drastic change. There are those that will bleach their hair in order to bring it up to the color they want immediately. I don't think there is anything wrong with that as long as u know what u are doing. Bleach is very harsh on the hair whether natural or relaxed. Bleach will break ur hair off and/or burn ur scalp.
After u have figured out the color that u want u have to make sure that u know how to apply it. I don't think there is anything wrong with box color as long as u know how to apply it. The boxes normally have directions that are easy to follow and it is important that u follow them to a "t". You also want to make sure u have enough. Sometimes when u have natural it tends to be thicker then what ur relaxed hair would have been which means that u would want to purchase at least 2 boxes. Also make sure that if u have gray hair that the color covers gray. If the color that u purchase does not have gray coverage then u run the risk of having the gray hair to have a different color then the rest of ur hair.
Now if u feel that u want blonde hair, you do not have to bleach it...u can buy a blonde color which will lift ur hair to blonde without as much damage as bleach. If u want a very bright color(like red) then u may have to take the color up to blonde first and then cover with a rinse. A rinse does not damage the hair because it only stains the hair. A rinse will not have the same effect as permanent color.
If u are not sure how to color ur own hair and u choose to have the color done by a stylist...make sure that u disclose to the stylist what color u are trying to achieve and let him/her know if u have ever had problems with color before.
The most important thing to remember is that color can enhance ur appearance when done correctly.
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Childrens Hair
So I have been seeing a lot of little girls with natural hair and even some little boys with locs and i think that is a very beautiful thing. Both of my girls are natural and they like their hair...neither of them have ever expressed wanting to have straight hair. Working in a salon I see a lot of little girls (4 yrs old and up) that have relaxers and they cry and don't want to sit under the dryer...to me it is a little sad, but some people don't want to manage a child's natural hair. But i think that if people would just take the time to try it they would see that it is really not that hard to do. In most cases you can train a child's hair to do what you want it to do.
If u need some tips on kids hair or if u have questions about how to style ur child's hair...leave them in the comments section....
If u need some tips on kids hair or if u have questions about how to style ur child's hair...leave them in the comments section....
Eventful Weekend
Well I cant say it was just an eventful weekend because the whole week was good....my sister came in town and the Embracing Your Beauty Event was this weekend. I met some nice people and of course I did some networking.
Finally got to meet some of my fb friends and talk to some people about hair....and made some good contacts......
Finally got to meet some of my fb friends and talk to some people about hair....and made some good contacts......
Sunday, May 15, 2011
Picking a Stylist
I see so many times on fb people telling their hair horror stories and sometimes I think that some of them could have been avoided if a couple of key questions were asked....
Even as a stylist I feel that there are questions that people should ask me that they sometimes don't.
First, when u are looking for a stylist whether its on fb, craigslist, google, flyer, or phonebook...u need to know if the stylist specializes in Natural Hair...reasons: 1. u can run into someone that has seen some natural hair techniques done or seen some youtube videos and just copies what they see 2. for some stylist "natural" means more then one thing (ie. braids, relaxed hair without weave, or press and curl). So u have to be clear...if u want a twist out ask what kind of twist out do they do or which they are familiar with....
Secondly, when u talk to a new stylist make sure u ask what types of products or styling tools they use on natural hair. For those stylist that don't specialize in natural hair they may not buy products for natural hair because it isn't something that they do on a regular basis. U want to make sure that if u want a blow out or a iron out that the stylist uses ceramic styling tools...u don't want to make the mistake of having someone burn ur hair out or cause heat damage.
Thirdly, u want to make sure that u ask all the questions that u are curious about. U should never just sit in a chair and say I don't know what I want or what to do with my hair so u can just do what u want. The result of that may leave u very unhappy. If u are not sure what a stylist can do or what they know about natural hair then asking for a consult first is not a bad thing....they may also want to do a consult before they go forward with styling ur hair. There is nothing wrong with asking question and any good stylist will welcome the questions and answer them. Also a good stylist is not afraid to admit that they just don't know something.....
These just a few things that u might want to think about....deciding to go natural is hard and the journey can be harder for some so the last thing u need is a stylist that isn't knowledgeable.
Sidenote: If the Natural Hair Stylist has a relaxer u might be sitting in the wrong chair.....
Even as a stylist I feel that there are questions that people should ask me that they sometimes don't.
First, when u are looking for a stylist whether its on fb, craigslist, google, flyer, or phonebook...u need to know if the stylist specializes in Natural Hair...reasons: 1. u can run into someone that has seen some natural hair techniques done or seen some youtube videos and just copies what they see 2. for some stylist "natural" means more then one thing (ie. braids, relaxed hair without weave, or press and curl). So u have to be clear...if u want a twist out ask what kind of twist out do they do or which they are familiar with....
Secondly, when u talk to a new stylist make sure u ask what types of products or styling tools they use on natural hair. For those stylist that don't specialize in natural hair they may not buy products for natural hair because it isn't something that they do on a regular basis. U want to make sure that if u want a blow out or a iron out that the stylist uses ceramic styling tools...u don't want to make the mistake of having someone burn ur hair out or cause heat damage.
Thirdly, u want to make sure that u ask all the questions that u are curious about. U should never just sit in a chair and say I don't know what I want or what to do with my hair so u can just do what u want. The result of that may leave u very unhappy. If u are not sure what a stylist can do or what they know about natural hair then asking for a consult first is not a bad thing....they may also want to do a consult before they go forward with styling ur hair. There is nothing wrong with asking question and any good stylist will welcome the questions and answer them. Also a good stylist is not afraid to admit that they just don't know something.....
These just a few things that u might want to think about....deciding to go natural is hard and the journey can be harder for some so the last thing u need is a stylist that isn't knowledgeable.
Sidenote: If the Natural Hair Stylist has a relaxer u might be sitting in the wrong chair.....
Contest
Well I have decided to do some networking thru doing a contest/giveaway....the winner will be picked randomly and the prize will be 50% off of any service. Hopefully through this my blog will flourish and I will be able to meet and help some people through their natural journey....
If there is a topic u would like to learn about or something u would like for me to discuss leave a comment and i will do my best to help.....
If there is a topic u would like to learn about or something u would like for me to discuss leave a comment and i will do my best to help.....
Monday, May 9, 2011
Starting my daughters locs
So I have decided to loc my 7 yr old daughters hair. she already has long hair and she doesn't really care for it. Sometimes I want to do it so that she will not feel left out. I have locs(for now!) and so does her dad and her younger sister has very curly/kinky hair so she wears a lot of twist and twist outs. My 7 yr old on the other hand has wavy hair that does not have that much of a curl to it. Sometimes she says that she wants her hair to look like mine and I decided that now would be a good time to do it. She doesn't like to have her hair washed, combed, or brushed...she doesn't like her hair braided, in more then 2 ponytails, nor does she ever want it in her face. So this seemed like the most logical solution. Because of her hair texture and the length of her hair we are starting from braids. It has taken 2 days for me to get 3/4 of it finished and so far it is looking pretty good. I didn't bother with making them very tight because i want there to be good room to twist when they start to grow out. I am not looking forward to twisting her hair at the roots each week but I will do it. I didn't put any product on her hair because I don't want them to start off with build up. I want her hair to be clean...so yes it is a little(actually a lot) frizzy right now but I will get that all straightened out in the coming weeks. I will be sure to give updates and post pics(as soon as I take some good ones and figure out how to upload them on to the blog) along with her thoughts on the process as we go.....
Hopefully this will be a liberating experience for her...........
Hopefully this will be a liberating experience for her...........
Styling ur T.W.A
After the BC some women have dreams of how they will style their newly natural hair. Even though they may not be able to see what the true texture will be they have seen their share of pics of long, short, and colored natural hair. But they haven't yet realized that they may not be able to achieve those same hair style.
Even if u don't have the texture that u thought u might have it is okay because there are still things that u can do with that teeny weeny afro.
The first step is to fine a good moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. U want to make sure that your hair is well moisturized. Buy a good daily moisturizer. There are a few shampoos and conditioners that I like( Garnier, Herbal Essence, L'Oreal). When it comes to moisturizers i stick with the old faithfuls(grease, Pink Oil, Shea Butter). Even though i like these and they worked well in my free form natural hair I have to say that u have to find whatever works best for you.
When it comes to styling a t.w.a u have to think simple. You may not have that much hair so there is no real need for a lengthy daily routine. You may only be able brush it, comb it, and add a moisturizer to define the curls.
During this stage accessories will definitely be your best friend along with a nice color. Earrings and light makeup might also help complete your look.
The most important thing is to have fun and embrace the beauty that comes along with the freedom of natural hair......
Even if u don't have the texture that u thought u might have it is okay because there are still things that u can do with that teeny weeny afro.
The first step is to fine a good moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. U want to make sure that your hair is well moisturized. Buy a good daily moisturizer. There are a few shampoos and conditioners that I like( Garnier, Herbal Essence, L'Oreal). When it comes to moisturizers i stick with the old faithfuls(grease, Pink Oil, Shea Butter). Even though i like these and they worked well in my free form natural hair I have to say that u have to find whatever works best for you.
When it comes to styling a t.w.a u have to think simple. You may not have that much hair so there is no real need for a lengthy daily routine. You may only be able brush it, comb it, and add a moisturizer to define the curls.
During this stage accessories will definitely be your best friend along with a nice color. Earrings and light makeup might also help complete your look.
The most important thing is to have fun and embrace the beauty that comes along with the freedom of natural hair......
Sunday, May 1, 2011
The Big Chop
I will try to do a post that offers hair tips each Sunday along with my general post. I have somewhat of a list that i am going to work from so I will start at the Top with the Big Chop....
So I want to know why is it so hard for some women to give up those raggedy relaxed ends. I can understand if u have 1/2 inch of new growth and ur hair is relatively healthy. But what I don't understand is if u have 1 inch of ratty relaxer...
Believe me I know there is a lot of pressure on black girls and black women to have long hair but is it really necessary? Some people will never have long hair...shoulder length might be as far as u go(lol). But when the hair is unhealthy it doesn't matter if it sweeping across the floor....one of the goals of going natural is to have healthy hair. So why not just CUT it. I have had long hair and I know that people look at u differently when u have long flowing tresses' as opposed to a tight little afro. But wearing natural hair should be a symbol of ur individualism and ethnic pride.
So I say if u have been having a hard time deciding what to do that u should just go for it....let ur beauty shine through! Show the world that u are a proud black women full of self-love....
*sidenote- u will feel so much better after u let go of the past(relaxer)
NHbN
So I want to know why is it so hard for some women to give up those raggedy relaxed ends. I can understand if u have 1/2 inch of new growth and ur hair is relatively healthy. But what I don't understand is if u have 1 inch of ratty relaxer...
Believe me I know there is a lot of pressure on black girls and black women to have long hair but is it really necessary? Some people will never have long hair...shoulder length might be as far as u go(lol). But when the hair is unhealthy it doesn't matter if it sweeping across the floor....one of the goals of going natural is to have healthy hair. So why not just CUT it. I have had long hair and I know that people look at u differently when u have long flowing tresses' as opposed to a tight little afro. But wearing natural hair should be a symbol of ur individualism and ethnic pride.
So I say if u have been having a hard time deciding what to do that u should just go for it....let ur beauty shine through! Show the world that u are a proud black women full of self-love....
*sidenote- u will feel so much better after u let go of the past(relaxer)
NHbN
I Love the way my Hair Looks!
So there is something that has been bothering since I December. I have to say since Dec. because I think that it always happened but not on the same level. Im talking about hair discrimination. In December I started working in a rather small shop with 2 other stylist. One does braids and relaxed hair and the other does relaxed hair so that leaves me the only one with natural hair that does only natural hair. Of course I get the usual stares but I also get alot of sly remakes and a couple of my clients have felt the stares. I LOVE my hair in its natural state and I am beginning to LOVE my locs, that being said I also like relaxed hair....I dont have a problem with the way that anyone wears thier hair. So many times I think that women with relaxed hair are afraid that women with natural hair are going to tie them down and preach them into going natural. My main concern is that my hair is healthy and that my clients have a healthy head of hair.
But the thing that gets me is the children. I have two daughter that have totally different hair and I have totally different hair from theirs. I have 2 other people in my family that are natural so I think just like anything else I have the responsibility as a parent to expose my children to different things. I have to expose them to different foods, religions, people, and different hair. Yes I grow up as most of us did, with a relaxer but I have had colored hair, straight hair, curly hair, weaved hair, and no hair....and I will allow my children to have that same freedom with their hair. I just think that it is sad that a child looks at me and says "why do u want ur hair like that?", "why don't u want straight hair?", or the best one "I don't want my hair like that!".
More then once i have had to explain to a child and the occasional adult, in the shop, that my Nappy hair is not going to rub off on them. It is like they are scared of my hair....I'm not sure why, because it doesn't bit and it isn't like natural Hair is a virus that u can catch.
I will continue to educate those that stare and ask ridiculous questions because if i don't at least attempt to change their views they will be trapped in that ignorance for a lifetime.....
But the thing that gets me is the children. I have two daughter that have totally different hair and I have totally different hair from theirs. I have 2 other people in my family that are natural so I think just like anything else I have the responsibility as a parent to expose my children to different things. I have to expose them to different foods, religions, people, and different hair. Yes I grow up as most of us did, with a relaxer but I have had colored hair, straight hair, curly hair, weaved hair, and no hair....and I will allow my children to have that same freedom with their hair. I just think that it is sad that a child looks at me and says "why do u want ur hair like that?", "why don't u want straight hair?", or the best one "I don't want my hair like that!".
More then once i have had to explain to a child and the occasional adult, in the shop, that my Nappy hair is not going to rub off on them. It is like they are scared of my hair....I'm not sure why, because it doesn't bit and it isn't like natural Hair is a virus that u can catch.
I will continue to educate those that stare and ask ridiculous questions because if i don't at least attempt to change their views they will be trapped in that ignorance for a lifetime.....
Sunday, April 24, 2011
My First Blog
So I've decided to start blogging. Some of my clients have asked me to do one that basically deals with the issues of Naturals that have a kinkier(is that a word) curl pattern. Sometimes it is hard to look at blog post and YouTube videos when the person has natural hair but it is nowhere near the texture of ur hair. So I will be posting every Sunday. Sometimes I will just be posting about things that have happened during the week at the salon or with my own hair. But if there is a topic that someones wants me to talk about u can either email it to me(naturaltransformations@yahoo.com), inbox my on fb(facebook.com/NaturalHairby Nerissa), or leave a comment here.
I am really looking forward to doing this and I am excited to see what topics will come.........
And all inquires on appointments please call 757-541-7496
I am really looking forward to doing this and I am excited to see what topics will come.........
And all inquires on appointments please call 757-541-7496
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