Feeling Comfortable in ur Hair...

Recently I have heard a lot of natural hair wearers saying that they want their hair to look like "this" or like "that" and I always wonder what make them think that they can achieve that particular style. Most relaxed hair, unless u have practically no hair, can all go easily into the same styles. For example if I was to relax my hair then I could get a iron out whether my hair is short or long, weave could be added for the length and/or thickness, and so could u and we could have virtually the same hair style. Now lets use the same example for natural hair, I could wear my natural hair in a blown out Afro and get the "Foxy Brown" look, but you could blowout your hair and it could go almost completely straight. So that means that you have to know your hair. You cannot style your hair based on what my hair or the next persons hair texture is. People go from relaxed to natural for many different reasons, but one of the reasons should be individuality. You have to be comfortable and confident with yourself. Choose style that enhance your natural beauty.....